Friday 31 August, 2007

TRUE FRIENDS

You think about them frequently, but you don`t talk to them frequently.you pray for their well beings, and you carve to meet them,but not brave enough to pick up the phone or shoot an email for chat!! Have you ever wondered who your true friends are? when i look back years, my true friends are the ones with whom i have had the least amount of communication in the recent past we got so busy with our daily schedules and life took its own course. i do not even have any contacts with this friend.i have not been hold enough to haunt for a contact number/ email address & get back in touch with this friend. But,the truth fullness of our friendship remains the same. its the same case with even some of my other true friend. limited communication with unlimited thinking about them whenever your memories rewind to the past. As you get older & older, you realize that it is hard to build true friendship with all kinds of open communication,you reply back on your good- old network to renew your communication. i know that if one day we get together after several years, there is just so much to catch- up & so much to talk.And, we realize that lot's has changed in each other's lives during the long gap .you end up cherishing the minimal communication for serveral years in expectation of that one moment to catch- up. "Friendship is measured in quality, not in quantity friends are nothing we collect, but people we share our life with" and "where understanding is found, that's where you find your friends".

9 comments:

Ankit said...

yes.. best friends are rare.. and they will always be there no matter what.. but still keep everyone as close as you can.. emails n phone dont take as much time as we spend on planning to make them.. cheers

Sach1 said...

I always felt that in friendship, distances won't make a difference. but now i feel you need to tell every friend that there lives a friend who will be there for you when you need 'em.
:)

Anonymous said...

.. and I always used to believe that friendship is all about spending maximum possible time together, coz if you spend time.. you inadvertently ought to develop the thing. But you've made me think.. And I am impressed with your so convincing literary acumen.

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Mr. Commonsensical said...

I used to think true friends are the one you spend most time with and the ones you really want to spend time with but don't, might be the ones for whom you feel more than just a friend.

After the thought-provoking read, Iam forced to reconsider.

Unknown said...

ya life goes on.. but friendship remains.. no matter how far one is frm other..

travel30 said...

Some days are cold and dark.
Some make us feel so alone.
Some days are hard to understand.
On those days God knew we'd need
an extra hug or two.
So he gave us friends.
So that we would always have
an angel close when we needed one

travel30 said...

nice post :-)

Indrajit said...

good post. Indeed truly said.
Whrever u go, whtevr course ur life takes, a part of u wd always breathe for ur tru and precious frnds, esp frm schools and colleges.
And school frnds wd always b the guardians of ur innmost secrets .:)
At least tht holds tru 4 me. :)

Tc, ciao.